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Friday, October 15, 2021

OLD PEOPLE DON'T LIKE CHANGES

 Rabbi Rifat Sonsino, Ph.D

There is a statement in the Book of Ecclesiastes, 1:9 that reads: “There is nothing new under the sun.” We find similar statements in Akkadian proverbs, such as “The life of the day before yesterday is that of any day” (ANET, p. 425). R.B.Y. Scott tells us that one finds parallel statements in Elamite and Greek texts (The Anchor Bible, Proverbs and Ecclesiastes, p.211).

The meaning of the Hebrew proverb is not clear: does it imply that things always remain the same and that there are no changes in anything? This goes against our human experiences. Very often, we see that what was acceptable yesterday is no longer de rigueur now. In fact, we see changes everywhere. Nothing remains the same. The river keeps flowing. Styles change, habits change, our language changes as they reflect what is going in our lives today. 

Some commentators in the past tried to explain the proverb according to their own understanding of the times. The Talmud, for example, states that the biblical assertion that “there is nothing new under the sun,” simply means that there are no new creations after the six days of creation” (Sanh. 110a). For the medievalist commentator, Rashi, “the phrase contrasts futile daily activity done ‘in place of the Sun (: Light, Torah), i.e,  in contrast to the spiritual activity of Torah study and living”(The Jewish Study Bible, p. 1607). 

My wife and I now live in the independent section of a retirement community outside of Boston. My experience here seems to echo the biblical assumption that changes are not always well received, especially by people of old age.  Many residents don’t want to see any changes in the structure of our association. They long for the days when dinner was formal, with proper attire by the servers. No phones during dinner time. Any change is threatening to their psyche. Maybe because seniors have seen too many changes in their lifetime, and now that they have reached the zenith of their existence, they wish to preserve whatever they had accomplished intact. Any alteration, for them, means that what they had done in the past is no longer good or valid. And that hurts. But, I think, this is simply part of the fear of death or the fear of the unknown. It is better, I believe, to confront the changing realities around us and face them with courage, instead of ignoring the novelties that affect our daily lives. Changes will happen, whether we like it or not. We might as well deal with them.

 

 

Saturday, October 9, 2021

 


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