To my family, friends and readers…
For 2022, I wish you
A happy and healthy New Year
Bonne Annee
Feliz año nuevo
Buon anno
Yeni yiliniz kutlu olsun
שנה טובה ומתוקה
Rabbi Rifat Sonsino, Ph.d
Rabbi Rifat Sonsino, Ph.D
A curse is usually
defined as an expression of a wish that misfortune befall another person or
group. Therefore, strictly speaking, using a cuss word is not really a curse.
Here is a biblical
example of a curse: God said to Adam: “By the sweat of your brow, shall you eat
bread to eat” (Gen. 3:19).
Here is a Talmudic
example: “May it be Heaven’s will that a horn sprouts from between your eyes”
(Shab. 108a).
Here is a modern
example from a Yiddish curse: “ I hope you sink like a ship.”
In the past, people
took curses seriously. In fact, one Rabbi taught: “Let not the curse of a
common man seem trivial in your eyes” (B. Meg, 15a). Many actually believed
that curses had a power of action and derived their strength from the gods
(e.g. I Sam. 17:43). That is, people thought that when someone uttered a curse,
it will actually take place. Sheldon Blank, a biblical scholar, called them “automatic
and self-fulfilling” (HUCA 33, 1950-51, 73-95). Therefore, many were afraid of being
cursed.
In order to
insurance compliance, curses in the past were often attached to law codes or
covenants. Here is an example of a curse from the Laws of Hammurabi (17th
cent. BCE): “May Enlil (the god) , the determiner of destinies…incite revolts
against him [the person who disregards the laws] in his abode, which he cannot
suppress, misfortune leading to his ruin” (ANET, p. 179, line 51). Here is another
one found at the end of a treaty between Suppiluliumas, the Hittite king (14th
cent. BCE), and Kurtizawa; “If you,
Kurtiwaza, the prince……do not fulfil the words of this treaty, may the gods,
the lords of the oath, blot you out” (ANET, 206). Similarly, many biblical law
codes ended with blessings and curses to insure compliance. Here is an example
from the curses attached to the end of the laws in Leviticus: “ If you do not
obey Me (God)…I will loose wild beasts against you..(Lev. 26: 18-22).
Today, however, many
of us do not believe that curses include the power of action. Therefore they
are not likely to take effect. They simply express our displeasure towards
another. They do not have any reality attached to them. They are just silly
statements, like, “May you always step in a wet spot after putting on fresh
socks,” or, “some day you’ll go far-and I really hope you stay there.” So,
don’t waste sleep over if someone utters a curse against you. It is not going
to happen, though you may have to find a new friend.
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Rabbi Rifat Sonsino, Ph.D
I do not, and
don’t need one. But many people do. In fact, in my research I found out that
Lucky D. Rich (d.1971), a New Zealand performance artist, is best known for
holding the Guinness World Record as “the most tattooed person.” He had tattoos
in every part of his body!
The origin of
the word “tattoo” is controversial. Some people derive it from the Samoan
“tatau,” meaning “to strike,” others derive it from the Tahitian, “tatu,”
meaning “to mark.” Was tattooing known in the past? Yes. Ancient Egyptians used
to brand their slaves with the names of the owners to whom they belonged. It
was a sign of submission.
It is also
not clear how tattooing became popular in the West. According to the dominant
view, it was the British explorer, James Cook, who brought it back to Europe after
his voyages to the Far East in the late 18th century.
The Hebrew
Bible prohibits tattooing when it states that a person should not “incise any
marks” on oneself (Lev. 19:28). The Hebrew word for tattoo is ketovet kaaka. We know ketovet refers to
writing, but we don’t know exactly what kaaka
means. Nor do we know the root of the verb. Onkelos, the author of the Aramaic
translation of the Hebrew Bible, 3rd cent. CE, renders it as rushmin
haretin, meaning, “engraving a mark.”
It is not
even clear why is there a prohibition against it, even though most scholars
claim that somehow it has to do with idolatrous practices involving the cult of
the dead (Martin Noth, Lev. p 143). The medieval Jewish commentator Ibn Ezra seems to agree with it (see his comments on Lev.
19:28). The Quran does not specifically mention tattooing, but there is a
strong Muslim tradition that considers tattooing “haram” (prohibited) based on
the belief that one should not change the creation of Allah (See Quran, Women,
118-121). Christianity does not have a clear teaching on this subject.
Jewish law is
ambivalent on the subject of tattooing. In general, it prohibits it, especially if it
leaves a lasting mark (Mak. 3:6). However, Rabbi Simeon b. Judah, applied this
law only in cases of idolatry (Mak. 21 a). The medieval Jewish philosopher ,
Maimonides, considered it an idolatrous practice (Mishne Torah, Laws of
Idolatry, 12:11). There is also a popular belief that tattooed Jews are not
allowed to be buried in Jewish cemeteries, but this is not correct (See, Freehof’s
Responsa, viii, 119). Yet, there are
indications that in the past even some Jews accepted tattooing for the right
reasons. According to the Hebrew Bible, it was acceptable if one were to mark
his arm with a sign referring to God, thus becoming subservient to the divine:
“Another shall mark his arm “of the Lord” “(Isa. 44:5, JPS).
Why do people
get tattoos today? You will get various answers: self-expression, artistic
freedom, rebellion, to cover imperfections etc.
One thing is
clear: tattooing is here to stay, and I presume it will continue to be popular
among many people.
So, do you
want to get a tattoo? Get one, and make sure it is medically safe, but you
don’t need to compete with Lucky!
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